Saying Efioanwan Nsefik’s life is perfect is hilarious and fictitious. At Thirty Years, she said life have been a combination of all shades of colours representing experiences.
She grew up through discipline, pain, tears, betrayal and intimidation, then she held onto continuous self development, became ambitious, held fast to hard work which all led to her self discovery.
She may have been naïve at some point of her life (that is early rising) but definitely, what Efioanwan Nsefik can be remembered for is her determination, unmatchable ideas, her humility as perceived, her spirit of good cheer, hope on things and her overall belief that life’s good even in its worst state.
Being educated is a bonus for her coupled with the truth that she is a Christian. These became possible via her earthly parents who withheld nothing for her personal advancement.
Curiously, what did she do wrong?
1. Efioanwan Nsefik always held on to the ideology of repaying good with good. The reality was nothing near to her thought. Efioanwan Nsefik said: “Life is a different ball game from Literatures. At times what is morally obtainable is physically unpractised. She further stated that “When people’s consciences are dead, expect inactions.
2. Efioanwan Nsefik rarely had or held an opinion because of bullies. She later came in terms with the fact that “what’s true if not said remains a thought”. She then opined that “to have an opinion is to be ready for attack(s)”. Efioanwan Nsefik felt that not all were lucky; some are oriented positively while others are disoriented. She says no need to talk dirty or be a bully. “If everything means war to man, then man some day will go extinct”- Efioanwan Nsefik.
3. The thought that she hasn’t really cared enough for friends whom she lost to death. She said "seemingly, none truly cares if such doesn’t care enough”.
4. Relating to pleasing people, Efioanwan Nsefik thinks it's old fashioned. To her, pleasing oneself is in vogue. Efi said: “Pleasing people could also mean displeasing people”. Since we live once, we must live right. Ensure it’s you first!
